I use Emule and G3 Torrent myself. G3 is barebones software wise but effective. Emule is heavily policed by the DL to UL ratio police. You must be willing to give or you won't get is the bottom line there.
Emule has an option to intergrate a media player of your choice into it's interface and is configurable in the options tab. It also has easy access to the Emule mod crew's IRC help room and they are very helpful with noobies questions.
Winter